some people are just so arrogant and shrewd(in a cunning way). for example, what do u take of a girl(or lady or woman) who invites mostly the rich relatives to her wedding dinner and dump those who are of middle class at the corner table(which are just a minority)? so they must be of no calibre right? one can easily see from the way the bride arranges the seating arrangement. the relatives from her father's side are so noticibly important that they are all squashed into a table whereas her mother's relatives hogged up four whole tables or more. they are the lawyers and business people who could afford to give hefty sums of money as red packets for the bride and groom. well. SOME people can go to all lengths and suck up to people just to earn some quick bucks. i know that these people are capable of sueing me for slander because they like to keep their "face"with them. so i will do my very best not to name them while venting out my thoughts and feelings about them.


they are people who think the world of themselves just because they may be SLIGHTLY more educated than other people. what is a degree for if one is so devoid of respect for her own relatives? yes, no doubt they may not be as smart or as well educated as her siblings, her mother and herself. but surely she knows how to respect them? the way she throws her temper at her relatives over a trivial matter clearly shows that she was not brought up properly. it shows that she is a brat who is spoilt rotten. she thinks so highly of herself, but does she have a masters degree(like one of her cousins from her father's side)? is she a high profile professor or anywhere near that? what right does she have to discriminate relatives who are albeit of lower status but of good character? she and her mother ought to go reflect on their selfish thoughts as someone who is much younger than them can pinpoint their faults.



furthermore, she does not invite any cousins or children to her wedding. (one of her cousins from her father's side had a wedding dinner not too long ago as well. hers was in a much more luxurious restaurant where the things there were much more expensive. but the big difference there was that every single family member or relative were invited-whether rich or poor. whether young or old. some people even gave the bride and groom a ridiculously low amount of money and the bride and groom had to pay for them. did they even complain? no. that was because they are generous and considerate people who had PROPER UPBRINGINGS.)do u know the reason for that? in their eyes, children are poor little weaklings who cant afford to step into their OH so luxurious restaurant where the sumptious dishes are only meant to be served to those who can afford the price. surely they wouldnt want children to eat and drink for free? they would rather trade those places for rich couples to come and give them money-their hearts' desires. what is kinship to them? void. what is money to them? happiness. what is status to them? everything.